As the festive season comes to a close, Bhai Dooj, also known as Bhau Beej in Maharashtra, celebrates the timeless bond between brothers and sisters. Observed on the second day after Diwali, Bhai Dooj is marked by heartfelt rituals where sisters pray for their brothers' prosperity and well-being, and brothers vow to protect and support their sisters. In 2024, Bhai Dooj falls on Sunday, November 3.

The History of Bhai Dooj

Bhai Dooj's origins trace back to ancient times, with several legendary tales providing insight into its roots. One such story associates Bhai Dooj with Lord Krishna and his sister Subhadra. According to the story, after Krishna defeated the demon Narakasura, he visited his sister. Subhadra welcomed him with an aarti and put a tilak on his forehead, symbolizing her blessings. This tale, like the one of Yamraj and Yamuna, highlights the love and care between siblings, laying the foundation for Bhai Dooj celebrations.

Another prominent legend centers around Yamraj, the god of death, and his sister Yamuna. According to the tale, Yamuna invited her brother to her home and honored him with an aarti and a special feast. Deeply moved, Yamraj granted her a boon, allowing her to ask for any blessing. She requested that he visit her annually and that every brother who receives an aarti from his sister on this day would be blessed with long life and happiness. Since then, this day is celebrated as Bhai Dooj to commemorate their sibling bond.

The Significance of Bhai Dooj

Bhai Dooj is one of the most cherished occasions for siblings, embodying a commitment to protection, blessings, and love. Sisters perform a tilak ceremony (often a mix of rice, vermillion, and sandalwood paste) on their brothers' foreheads as a mark of their prayers for his longevity and success. Brothers, in turn, offer gifts to express their gratitude and promise to support their sisters through every phase of life.

In Maharashtra, this day is called Bhau Beej, where 'Bhau' means brother. This name, unique to the Marathi language, reflects regional traditions while carrying the same essence of love and respect for siblings.

The Dos and Don’ts of Bhai Dooj

To make this day even more meaningful, here are some dos and don’ts for a fulfilling Bhai Dooj celebration:

Dos:

Prepare a Special Thali: Arrange an aarti thali with a diya (lamp), roli (vermilion), rice grains, sweets, and coconut. This thali forms an essential part of the tilak ceremony.

Observe Cleanliness: Cleanse the space where the aarti will be performed, as cleanliness symbolizes purity and devotion.

Exchange Gifts: Brothers usually give gifts to their sisters, symbolizing gratitude and affection. The gift could be something thoughtful that reflects their unique bond.

Pray for Each Other’s Welfare: Take a moment to genuinely pray for each other's health, happiness, and prosperity. Sisters can also recite traditional prayers for their brothers’ longevity.

Don’ts:

Avoid Inauspicious Timings: Follow the specific 'Muhurat' for the tilak ceremony to ensure the blessings are received at an auspicious time.

Avoid Negativity: It’s important to maintain a positive atmosphere during the celebrations. Try to refrain from discussing any past grievances or negative experiences, focusing instead on the joy and love of the occasion.

Avoid Arguing: Let this day be filled with positivity. Keep aside differences and focus on the love and memories that make your bond special.

Do Not Rush the Ceremony: Bhai Dooj is a time for connection. Perform each ritual calmly and avoid any rush to enjoy the tradition’s full essence.

A Festival of Love and Memories

Bhai Dooj is a celebration that reinforces the importance of family ties, creating memories for siblings to cherish. The festival, enriched with history, rituals, and traditions, remains one of India’s most heartfelt celebrations, bridging any physical or emotional distance between siblings. May this Bhai Dooj bring love, peace, and prosperity to every home, strengthening the bonds that hold families together.

Wishing everyone a joyous Bhai Dooj from the NexNews Network!